Sunday, May 25, 2008

Bye bye Manipal...

This post is written in the bus…:)
I am on my way back home from manipal, the land of dreams and ambitions, the land where students come sane and become insane…some lose their identity and some learn to live as hypocrites…they start believing in the concept of ‘its just for these three-four years and then I’ll be back to my original self’…in the name of three years they try every possible thing in this land of dreams….its all about being cool for some, they think owning an ipod, dolby speakers, a flat and a mobile worth a middle class clerks salary is cool….still in this pool of fakers are some who are focused, who toil hard each day in the hope of becoming some1 one day…and in this they struggle between these two lives. ..both the lives are good and happy. Ignorance is bliss and some people live like that forever..its aweird world….u think u want something and u end up getting something else…..in all this I learnt a few things in manipal
• Never crib about others and their habits, u never know why a person does a particular thing, what is his agenda in life and how confused he is …….i don’t think a drunkard in manipal student crowd can be blamed for being spoiled. How would I know what his previous lifestyle has been, his bringing up, what has he seen in life and what all mess is he involved in.. maybe there are so many questions in his life and that he wants to run away and never face realities.
• Nothing remains in the close realms of one person’s thought in manipal. anything about any1 is known to the entire world. i don’t seem to like a person;s ways and the entire college knows that I hate the person. U see whatever gets transported from one person’s mouth to another’s ear has some new interesting and spicy elemant added to it.
• There are very few people in this world who are transparent and are straight on the face. These people don’t have any grudges and live a peaceful life because they compel others to know how they feel or think about others. The lifestyle they live is better than the rest of course. But its hard to be like that u know. And besides keeping this as a virtue forever is another difficulty.
• One should learn to be happy in how much you have, coz you have so much more than some others.
• Each individual has a problem of a different nature. No1 is more happy or less happy. There are problems with every1 and each one has to learn to deal with them. Nobody will deal them for you, not every 1 can be guided or say guided well or even have good ppl to guide them. Never think your own problems are the biggest and only you don’t have a solution. Life is difficult and its our responsibility to make it easy.
• Also that close friends are precious. They can be irritating and overpowering sometimes but they are your saviours. They love you and take care of you always in every situation. Never lose those who are genuine.
• As long as you are doing the right thing be happy. Don’t get judgemental on others.
• A person’s nature and character are two different things. They can never be equated. A guy could be a womaniser but a very helping one at the same time.
I have realized some of the most important virtues in manipal. it has helped me to understand myself to a greater extent and come in terms with my inner fears.
I am now fearless, boundless and happy. I know the world is a nasty place and I have to remain sane to sail through unlike many others around me. Also that I dread only one year is left in manipal. I love this land of dreams so much that It will be painful to leave it one day...

22 comments:

Comfortably Numb said...

Nice but yea I learnt all those things which you are talking about a long time back..Some may say I was too matured for my age but then I say that they were too lousy and dumb for their age...And I dont agree with:

"A guy could be a womaniser but a very helping one at the same time."

Not true at all..If the guy is a womaniser then he's bound to show his concern towards his current fling but then never looks back to his previous dumpings...Its just that a womaniser may seem to be concerned but he can be never TRULY concerned for anyone :)

Cheers..
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Aashika said...

hey,
i know ppl who are womanisers and great at heart...like i said before a person's nature and character are two different things. and a guy who has both good is actually a nice guy..:)

Hestia said...

its great advice aashika, u ve written it in a such an-elder-sisterly way(or to me it seems so)..
empathy!
it gives me courage..

Aashika said...

hello ami...uvnt answered my question yet>>>...visit www.shaazyspeaks.blogspot.com for the question...;)
as for my post, these are somethings ive learnt after going thru a lot...(i am no abla..)bt it has surely been a great experience of learning...and it, in my eyes, has made me a better person.
others are not bound to go thru all that...:)
to clarify, i ve gone thru trouble just coz of my wrong ways and you reap so as you sow..!!
cheers!!..have a great holiday

Sachi said...

tell u aashika.. its not manipal alone. i have experienced the same somewr else, but i have learned all this a long time back.there r hypocrites n nasty ppl everywr... i guess its upto u to choose the right ppl n live wid them happily.... n i completely get wht u mean.:)

Aashika said...

hey sachi..ur rite!!
what i am saying is that i have had the experience only in manipal..n well, its been worth it:)

jayant said...

College days.. priceless!
teach you a lot and i'm sure others have learnt from you as well.
Womanisers... know a lot of them and yeah,you're right when you say that some of them do have a great heart but its very difficult to tell whether their concern is genuine or....

and i'm not surprised that whole college knows whom u hate n all,given that u're in a girl dominated college(did anyone mention tell-a-woman as the fastest means of communication?? :P)
hope u'll b more frequent wid ur posts during ur vacations

shaazy said...

forgot one more rule aashi... 99 percent of ppl don practise wat they preach!!! u have set some really hard rules for urself... so do watch out!!! lolllllllll

Aashika said...

shaazy....!!!!these rules are tried and tested..*smarty angel*
btw u n ram speak the same tone....phew my lifez becoming even more difficult...lol..:)

shaazy said...

have been workin wit ramu quie a bit u c... guess a lil bit of hid ruthlessness is rubbin off on me.. lolllllllll

Hestia said...

dear aashika.. replied to ur question..
anyway - u analyse well yaa..
quite a few ppl just sound pised off an d blah..
i dont get depressed readin ur blog, wouldnt be reading it otherwise :P
meri maa!
i think u r always lookin for ways to take my case!

Aashika said...

@ami...no no no ami..never never!!
i am such a poor little thing...i can never even think of taking any1s case....n out of all ppl yrs??...never..i dont mess with big ppl u see:P

Hestia said...

big people.. u r the bade aadmi.. tumhare pass toh gadi hai, bangla hai, pink power hai.. mere pass bass Zero hai! so u r the bade aadmi..
ab mera kya hoga!

shaazy said...

i know this is no wer related to the blog post.. but aashi.. its d battle between JAIPUR AND RAJASTHAN 2NYT.. n dt 2 in the finlas... nique coincidence... by know i am sure u 2 are the SUPER POWERS!!! LOLLLLLL.. who do you think will win

Aashika said...

Hahahahhaah....lol;)
Rajasthan Royals will win without doubt shaazy....:):)..and Chennai superkings shall see..:P
its sure a unique coincidence..
*blush blush*....i am already preparing a blogpost on that..;)

Aashika said...

@shaz....Rajasthan Royals won...now u whoz the ultimate Super power..!!..lol.;):)

shaazy said...

i guess PINK POWER was a lil 2 hard to handle for the chennai boys.. i am sure u r elated

Aashika said...

@sorry for the late reply...was out of touch with internet...i am surely elated:);)

ankcraz said...

well i cud relate to all the things that u have written..
really gud post..cheers :).

Prashanth Nagaraj said...

Gud write up....
Got wat u meant..

ppl do get irritating.....Its up to us...to deal with them...

Nway..happy blogging..

-Prashanth

ray said...

Hi ,

I was reading ur blog posts and found some of them to be wow.. u write well.. Why don't you popularize it more.. ur posts on ur blog ‘there is randomness in being oneself!!’ took my particular attention as some of them are interesting topics of mine too;

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This way you can reach out to rambhai readers some of whom could become your ardent fans.. who knows.. :)

Cheers,

Shrinidhi Hande said...

I was recalling the Manipal university theme video as I was reading your post...

nice...